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Tuesday, November 17, 2009
Wolves in Sheep's Clothing
One of the reasons that the Puritan people were so gung ho on the witch hunts, trials, and executions is that they were afraid. They had just come out of the Dark Ages and a lot of horrible things had taken place during that era. For one thing, some of the things that the Catholic Church had been doing were just plain wrong, hence the need for Martin Luther to revolt and lead Christians to the Reformation. People were mass murdered for believing on Christ. It was unbelievable and I doubt that we can truly understand horrors of that time.
Only a short 100 years later, the Puritans still remembered the corruption of the Church and the trials through which their forefathers had gone. They were deeply suspicious of anyone or any creed that appeared to be less than the strict doctrines they had begun to follow with the lead of men like Luther and John Calvin.
To top it off, people often held onto their superstitions and rituals that should have been abandoned altogether. This too caused many of the firm Christian believers to be uncomfortable.
Then, along come some girls in Salem, Mass. who display strange seizures. They say that they are under a witch's spell. They have unexplained pinch marks and bruises on their bodies. Hysteria breaks out.
Out of the people who were accused, convicted, and executed for witchcraft, only one was a known professing witch. This woman had voodoo dolls in her cellar which she used for inflicting pain on others.
The other people who hung (except for Giles Corey who was pressed to death), were probably innocent.
The Bible says to watch out for those who are wolves in sheep's clothing in Matthew 7:14.
Deuteronomy 13:1-3 (AMP) says:
IF A prophet arises among you, or a dreamer of dreams, and gives you a sign or a wonder,
And the sign or the wonder he foretells to you comes to pass, and if he says, Let us go after other gods--gods you have not known--and let us serve them,
You shall not listen to the words of that prophet or to that dreamer of dreams. For the Lord your God is testing you to know whether you love the Lord your God with all your [mind and] heart and with your entire being.
The Puritans were overcautious to the point that they went too far. Sometimes our fears can blind us of the truth. That is when we need to get down on our knees and pray - and let the Holy Spirit guide us and show us the truth.
Keeping Busy
Thursday, June 18, 2009
Tags - Blogging Thoughts and CRIME

I later dropped that blog as I became busier and busier with five children in our homeschool. Then, when time eased up a bit, I started up this blog, Following 31, because I felt led to witness and encourage women who wanted to be Biblical wives, mothers, and homemakers. It's since branched out to folks in all walks of life who feel a connection to the whole Proverbs 31 Woman thing.
I've had my ups and downs with this whole blog thing. At times I've felt the urge to quit, especially after facing off with an internet stalker - someone I do know in real life. When I weighed in the balance who would be hurt if I quit I realized that a whole lot of people would suffer. I faced the giant and feel that, with God's hand in it, good prevailed.
I now blog because I enjoy encouraging and receiving encouragement from others. I've made friends that I know will be life-long friends through blogging. I will continue to do so until the Lord leads me elsewhere.

Bloggers sometimes think they can get away with stealing someone else's blog posts. People do it all the time when they copy something and then pass it off in e-mails mass produced. As a writer myself, I am HIGHLY offended at the thought that someone might pretend to have written what I wrote myself.
If you're too stupid to think up your own blog posts, quit blogging. Nobody expects you to come off sounding like Earnest Hemingway or some other famous writer. They come to your blog to read what YOU wrote.
As a side note, don't steal photos either. They are copyrited as well.
If you'd like to do one or both of these tags, feel free; just write your own words!
Sunday, May 10, 2009
Win Books!
Well, that's not really the point of this post. I'd like to point you to Gina's (of Writer Interrupted) great spring giveaway....a stack of books for you to enjoy this summer! I think it's a tremendously generous gift. Books are expensive but they enrich our lives so much that we can't do without them.
Even if you're not interested in winning books, please hop over to Gina's blog today and say hi.
Monday, December 08, 2008
Ideas
I have all sorts of idea going on in my head concerning book ideas. Today we had Christmas play practice for Ryan and Amanda and during it, I sort of let my mind wander. After a couple of hours the practice was getting boring - even more for the kids I think!
I didn't get much done at home or on this blog or anything else today so I might as well work out great ideas, huh? Between baking 3 dozen cookies for Josh to take to a class party, getting through the kids' lessons, and washing dishes while supper cooked, I thought some more.
Because of life experiences, my response to them, and where I'm at today, I have a terrific (to me anyway) idea for a nonfiction story. I even have the title fixed firmly in my head. I'd tell you what it is but for now it's private. Don't worry - it's not a family portrait or anything like that.
If you've been reading this blog for the long haul you might be able to guess it.
Sunday, November 09, 2008
Tag
The rules are:
1. Link back to the person who tagged you and share the rules on your blog. check
2. Share 7 facts about yourself. check
3. Tag 7 people and list their links on your post. check (well, 6)
4. Tell those 7 people by commenting on their blogs. check
So....what do I share about myself? In other words, what might be interesting? Hmmm.
1. I am a homeschool mom who has 14 years in as teacher, now working on year 15....will be finished when the youngest graduates in, gulp, 2019. Oh my goodness! I just realized that is a huge chunk of my life!
2. I make almost everything we eat, drink and wash with from scratch. Sad to say that I don't do a whole lot of clothing making....just don't have the time to knit and crochet a lot and I almost hate to sew. But I'm working on that.
3. I am an avid fan of gardening and I dream of seeds by February. At that time I begin making my garden plans - really - I actually plan it out on paper.
4. I quit college just before completing my first year even though I had almost a perfect 4.0 average my first 2 quarters. I dream of going back and finishing my degree but probably never will.
5. I am working on my first novel for adults (Christian historical fiction). It's taken me a year to get half-way finished with it. I am mainly a nonfiction writer in the juvenile market, having been published in numerous magazines and Sunday school papers as well as Chicken Soup for the Girl's Soul. I've also won awards in two Writer's Digest writing contests. I dream of being a reclusive bestselling author living in the mountains of Tennessee after I finish that college degree.
6. A few years ago I was 5 feet tall and 160 lbs. Once I realized that overeating was a real sin, I took a course with Setting Captives Free and lost 45 lbs. Now I keep the Lord's desires for my life in my mind and in my heart and that has freed me from the addiction of food - something I had turned to in a depression part of my life. It feels so good to be free!
7. My desire to be a missionary in my neighborhood seems to consume me these days. I take the Great Commission (Matthew 28:16-30) seriously.
Now, I'm going to tag:
1. Yearnin' for Some Learnin'
2. Pieces of the World, Seen & Unseen
3. Defective Compositions
4. Christlover
5. Creative Homeschool Mom
6. Writer Mommy
7. Okay, okay, I ran out of people I know who I'm comfortable asking to do this tag. I AM getting to know new folks online so maybe next time I'll tag you!
Monday, August 25, 2008
Farley Mowat
Mr. Mowat has written many books, mostly nonfiction.
I am going to put aside my own novel in progress and get back into nonfiction for a while. I can no longer afford to be a starving artist--I can starve but I won't let my kids, if you understand where I'm coming from. Anyway, my stuff is nowhere as sensational as Farley Mowat's, but I think I can come up with something interesting anyway. I intend to write about some of my own life experiences which haven't been all that normal but I've survived, as anyone can. Faith is the fuel that can keep a person functional, don't you think?
Saturday, August 23, 2008
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Monday, May 19, 2008
Payback
I was homeschooled all the way from kindergarten to a senior in high school. My mom was always there, showing me the steps in my algebra problems and helping me with my English papers.
I am so grateful for the hours she spent on me. It seemed that all she cared about was giving me a good education so I could go to college and get a good job some day.
Now that I am in college, I look back and see how much she sacrificed for me. She basically gave up her life for me. That is why I think that she is the best teacher ever.
Wednesday, May 14, 2008
Attributes
I subscribe to Writer's Digest, have for about 8 years. I remember back when I was in high school and I borrowed the magazine from the public library. I thought I was so smart and important at the time and I began writing a novel just to prove to everyone that I could do it. I wrote about three chapters and then sent those pages in to a publisher and asked if they'd publish my book.
I made a lot of mistakes with that submission but the editor who received it was kind. She told me that next time I should send an SASE (self-addressed stamped envelope) with a submission. Then she proceeded to tell me that my story wouldn't work for them. She picked it apart in a gracious manner.
Editors today aren't all that gracious. They receive thousands of submissions yearly - some monthly - and they just don't have the patience of a saint. I've received all sorts of rejections and most of them are form letters, but a few have been in the form of a personalized letter. Others have gone a step further and critiqued my manuscripts, which in my book is a blessing. I can always take the suggestions and improve my work before sending it out to someone else, which I almost always do. I say almost always because I decided early on that I wouldn't compromise my convictions and write something that is dishonoring to God; an improvement has to improve, not morally decline.
All this is to say that if someone criticizes your writing, don't immediately throw it away and pout forever. Take their comments to heart and seriously ask yourself if your criticizer was right. Could you improve? If so, make the needed changes and thank the Lord that someone was caring enough to help you.
Monday, October 29, 2007
My Creative Endeavors
By now you might have noticed that some of my posts are sponsored by advertisers and you’re wondering why…
In my quest to make money from home and thus continue homeschooling the children (not to mention the fact there are no jobs up here and that we are a one car family) I scoured the internet for work-at-home jobs. I found a site called payperpost. This is a great way for me to combine blogging and my love of writing and earn extra money at the same time.
Most of the opportunities to blog about at payperpost pay an average of $5.00, but many are greater than that. I get to choose which opportunities to sign up for and I’m given ample time to create the post.
I’m still working on Heaven is High and freelancing for magazines when I can. But there are times that I’m up against a wall and need other opportunities as well.
This is a good opportunity for me…hey, I can write in bed with my laptop. You can’t beat that for a job!
So, you needn’t wonder about the sponsored posts any longer. I’ll be creating these now and then and I won’t ever take a post opportunity unless I can endorse the sponsor myself. I wouldn’t feel right about advertising for someone unless I agreed with them or found they were a worthy company.
Saturday, June 30, 2007
Places to Visit and Things to Think About
Another way to gain encouragement in the writing world is to go to www.writeboard.com and hook up with other writers. The service is free and is a place where you can post part of your story and save it. Then another writer, whom you've given permission, goes on and continues working on your story. They can also make edits, as can you. It's not something I would enjoy personally, as my story is, well, my story. But some people get a kick out of sharing and collaborating.
Did you know that you can buy used school books for a good price by visiting www.half.ebay.com? There's no waiting for an auction to end and it's also a good place to sell your unwanted books.
Saturday, May 12, 2007
Momma's Apron Strings
Momma’s Apron Strings
They say Junior’s tied to Momma’s apron strings when he’s really just tied to Momma. Junior’s not even sure what an apron is. With a whole generation losing sense of what an apron meant to women—and men—throughout the centuries, it might be time to revisit an old tradition.
Noah Webster defined the word apron as, “a portion of cloth, leather or other material, worn as a protective or ornamental cover in front.” Traditionally, people have worn aprons to cover and protect their clothing from all sorts of destructive forces. At the heyday of aprons, we had butcher’s aprons, cook’s aprons, craftsmen’s aprons, griller’s aprons, and more. Today, they remain popular, though mainly for the professionals and those who wish for yesteryear.
With all of this apron celebrity, one must wonder when and where they first came into being. The first place to look is at the beginning of time as recorded in the first book of the Bible: Genesis.
Aprons burst on the scene pretty early, as early as Adam and Eve and the sin that sent us all on a downward spiral. Genesis 3:7 states that after the first man and woman—Adam and Eve—believed a lie and ate from the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil, they realized they were naked so they made aprons of fig leaves to hopefully cover their shame. They couldn’t hide from the Lord, however. Though they began to die the moment they disobeyed God, and deservedly so, God killed animals to make coverings with the skins for these disobedient people.
It was a bloody beginning for the human race and the early aprons, but something better was on the horizon.
Not long after, aprons moved from something symbolizing a bloody covering to cloth with healing properties. When the apostle Paul drove out demons during his missionary journeys to Ephesus, Acts 19:12 states, “So that from his body were brought unto the sick handkerchiefs or aprons, and the diseases departed from them, and the evil spirits went out of them.” Now we understand that neither Paul nor the aprons held any supernatural powers and the apostles healed people through the name of Christ. But many didn’t comprehend this. Always looking for idols, folks attributed the power to a simple inanimate object.
As history moved forward, superstition trumped the truth and folks did some really strange things. In the early days, women were considered dangerous and unclean and, if they were to be allowed any sort of fellowship, they had to cover themselves with aprons. If not, the evil forces within them would be let loose and everyone around them would suffer.
In Nordic countries, many women wore multiple layers of aprons to protect those around her from bad luck. If a traveling man happened to meet a woman without the proper apron coverings, he might fall into some sort of despair. And if a woman were to be pregnant, she could wear no less than two aprons—one under her dress as well as over it—so that her unborn child would not get sick. Strangely enough, the superstitious beliefs worked the opposite in some cases, such as in Sweden. Animals became better suited to the farm if a woman laid an apron outside the barn for them to tread over.
Women, rather than men, were the main apron wearers for centuries. In European women’s graves, pieces of aprons have been found dating to about 800 B.C., the time of the Vikings. It took until about 1500 A.D. for aprons to gain widespread popularity enough that they became a visible part of a woman’s dress. At this time the long unisex dress that had been the fashion staple ended and women were on their way to creating their own lines of clothing.
Then women’s dresses developed a waist line. Skirts were born. Women dared to be a little risqué and showed some skin with shorter skirts that didn’t drag the floor and give it a good sweeping. It took no time at all before the Spanish kingdom stated that the waist piece should be tightened so that no piece of a woman’s body would be shown. Large collars and wide puffy sleeves helped to hide skin. Inside layers of frilly skirts a woman could literally hide. The most interesting part of this state-imposed uniform was the small piece of fabric in a different color that was worn on the outside of the dress—the ever popular apron.
When the eighteenth century dawned the apron had a major makeover. Instead of being long and thin, it now became shorter and wider. Then a century later, another change tugged at the apron strings with the advent of pattern printed cotton fabrics. By now, the apron had become a very important article of clothing.
Depending on the social status of the wearer, the apron came to mean different
things to different people. In the higher classes, it was mainly used as an accessory, much as jewelry would be used today. The working class, however, viewed the apron has an integral part of the dress code.
Basic aprons could be made from pieces of cloth held together with whatever material was available at the time of construction. For example, the cloth might be tucked into the waist or cinched with a belt or piece of twine, or it could be tied using the corners of the fabric itself. As time went on, the design improved as “apron strings” were added. After this, apron strings became a symbol of a domineering mother.
On the first full bib aprons, the bibs were held in place with pins or buttons; then came a nice improvement with neck straps. In the United States during the 1800’s, most aprons were made of homespun material as people produced most of their own goods. Later, women experimented with decorating their aprons with rickrack or embroidery, and by the 1900’s, aprons became just plain fancy.
Slave aprons in the early South weren’t fancy, though. The mammies, the slave women who cared for the babies and small children, wore tired and worn out aprons that appeared as if they were crafted from rags, which they likely were. These aprons were well used as they swaddled babies, wiped dirty faces and noses, safely carried eggs, and drug wood inside. Aprons could be washed easily and were a whole cheaper to make than a new dress, so they were highly prized.
Men began to wear aprons too. Bakers, butchers, welders, blacksmiths, carpenters, school teachers, shop keepers, waiters and even children donned aprons. Surgeons wore aprons too, but over time they morphed into white coats.
The early aprons of the 20th Century were loose full aprons and were called Hooverettes. When World War II changed things, aprons had to flow with the times. Fabric was expensive so towels, feed sacks and flour bags worked well to craft aprons. If an apron was on its last legs, the remaining scraps were cut and pieced with other scraps to form a quilt.
By the 1940’s, aprons gained a comeback with a new cinched waistline and bright colors. During the 1950’s half-aprons were popular, trimmed with lace and highly starched. Did you ever see June Cleaver without an apron? All good mothers wore them. And when relatives came for a visit, a kitchen drawer popped open and out came extra aprons for the company to use while there.
So where are we today with aprons? Most had disappeared from the kitchen by the 1980’s, except for those belonging to the die-hard apron lovers of older generations. The good news is that aprons are seeing a revival as cooking shows on cable TV become more and more popular. Everybody wants to be Rachel Rae. If you don’t watch TV, you can always go to hardware stores or meat markets if you want to see aprons in their occupational best.
Aprons are great coverings with quite a past, but perhaps their greatest tribute goes back to the Garden of Eden and that first apron with the bloody past. God didn’t use it to cover the shame of two sinners. He used it to symbolize the covering of something greater: Jesus Christ and His shed blood on Calvary. With such an apron our sins can be wiped away, rather than just covered up so that our shame can’t be seen by our peers. It is an apron that will last forever and the best part is that it’s free for the asking.